Anyway, I thought it'd be good for me and everyone within earshot if I tried developing a different skill. So I'm choosing gratitude.
It's dawned on me, more than once, that in the scheme of things - the big picture - I have it pretty damn good in almost every area of my life. Not as good as some, but I'd be willing to bet better than most. And it's not that I'm ungrateful - quite the opposite in fact. But what I do know is I could make a more frequent habit of practicing gratitude. Maybe turn it into an everyday thing, because everyday, there's something to be grateful for.
It could start every morning. My pal Cameron always says any day above ground is a good day. So waking up each morning seems like a good thing to be grateful for.
I don't work in insurance or the fast food industry. I don't work on an assembly line. Not that there's anything wrong with those jobs. But I'm grateful I have a job that lets me make up stuff and dress like a fifteen-year old everyday.
I could've wound up working with a bunch of stiffs, boring people who make the long days even more excruciating than they already are. Instead, (almost) no matter which agency I'm at, I'm grateful I get to work with some of the funniest, most creative people in any business.
My wife and kids are healthy and love me.
My two dogs are healthy and love me.
My neighbors are healthy.
I'm finding it's doing me good to have an attitude of gratitude, even for the little things.
Finding a parking space when I turn in the lot.
Not having to wait in the slow line at the market.
Walking up to the washer just as it finishes the cycle.
I'm grateful for my friends, who support, encourage and uplift me in all my endeavors and wild schemes. I mean my current friends. I cut the whiners and complainers loose long ago - no time for them. I'm grateful I did that as well.
So that's all I wanted to say. No snarky post, no quippy little end line tonight. I'll wrap it up by saying I'm grateful to everyone who reads this on a regular, semi-regular or occasional basis.
That's it. Now I'm done with this post.
See? I even gave you something to be grateful for.
1 comment:
You are SUCH a good writer, Jeff. I agree completely. As I found it hard to climb out of grief, I started a "gratitude journal" and it's been very effective. Equally as effective as visualizing Paul rolling his eyes and reminding me that the point of the whole exercise is to have fun. Thanks for this. No wonder Paul loves you so much. xoxo Kitty
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